Hello. I’m Gavin Edwards, the public speaker and the New York Times-bestselling author of The Tao of Bill Murray, the ’Scuse Me While I Kiss This Guy series, and Kindness and Wonder: Why Mister Rogers Matters Now More Than Ever. If you’re interested in hiring me, click here for more information.

Holiday Shopping: How to Buy a Signed Copy of One of My Books

So you want to buy a copy of one of my books for a loved one in the upcoming holiday season? Well, I’d certainly recommend that: I’ve got twelve books now, one of which is certain to be perfect for somebody on your list. (I’m particularly partial to my latest, Kindness and Wonder, but it may be that you know someone who’s a big fan of Bill Murray (in which case you might treat them to The Tao of Bill Murray) or Tom Hanks (The World According to Tom Hanks) or River Phoenix (Last Night at the Viper Room) or surrealist drawing games (The Beautiful Book of Exquisite Corpses).)

You can buy my books at your local bookstore (my favorite option!), or at major retailers such as Barnes & Noble, Amazon, or Powell’s. If, however, you want a copy that’s been signed and inscribed by me, your best bet is to call up my local bookstore, Park Road Books in Charlotte, North Carolina. They will be happy to sell you one or more of my books and ship them to you (or anywhere else in the world you like)—and before they send them out, I will swing by the store with a Sharpie and personalize them.

The phone number for the good people of Park Road Books is 704-525-9239, or you can reach them via orders@parkroadbooks.com. They also have a store dog, Yola, who has become something of a local celebrity, but I can’t promise they’ll put Yola on the phone.

If you want a personalized copy (not just signed) to arrive before Christmas, please make your order by Thursday, December 12th, to allow sufficient time for shipping. And whatever holiday you celebrate this winter, I hope it is filled with joy and light.

posted 24 November 2019 in Buy My Stuff. 1 comment

Thank You, Cary Regional Library!

On Sunday afternoon, I visited the Cary Regional Library in Cary, NC, which opened only a few weeks ago—it still has that new-library smell. (And it’s apparently been a huge hit: they had thousands of visitors on opening day. Kudos!)

I was there to read from Kindness and Wonder: Why Mister Rogers Matters Now More Than Ever, and I had such a great time with the large, lively crowd (lots of smart questions afterwards, plus somebody who had met Fred Rogers!), I wanted to put up a few photos of the event for posterity.

Me, striving to better explain Fred Rogers’ philosophy through the magic of hand gestures.
Roughly a hundred people in the room, raising their hands to signify that they had spent time in Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood.
General merriment with Amy Whitfield of the Cary library!

If you live in Wake County in North Carolina, I strongly recommend that you pay the Cary Regional Library a visit—it’s a gem.

posted 19 November 2019 in Outside. no comments yet

Top Five Songs with “Disco” in the Title That Aren’t Actually Disco

There are many many great disco songs that name-check the genre in the title, and then as often as possible during the song itself, so you don’t forget that you are getting down to a disco beat. But what of those songs that evoke disco so they can hit a less-exuberant emotional note?

  1. Pulp, “Disco 2000”
  2. Stereolab, “French Disko”
  3. St. Vincent, “Slow Disco”
  4. Yo La Tengo, “Last Days of Disco”
  5. Morrissey, “The National Front Disco”

(Honorable mention to Surf Curse’s recent entry “Disco,” but not to the Who’s benighted “Sister Disco.”)

posted 18 November 2019 in Tasty Bits. 1 comment

Library Visit: Cary, North Carolina

Hello citizens of North Carolina, specifically those in the Research Triangle area, and even more specifically those in the town of Cary!

I will be coming to your fair metropolis tomorrow and visiting the brand-new (and by all accounts, gorgeous) library. Let’s format that conveniently:

Sunday, November 17 (2 pm) / Cary

Cary Regional Library: 315 Kildaire Farm Road, Cary, NC, 27511. The event is free but they request preregistration: click here to go to the event page.

I will be reading from Kindness and Wonder: Why Mister Rogers Matters Now More Than Ever, fielding questions of all stripes, and doing super-excellent spontaneous stuff that will make this your favorite Sunday of the year. Books will be available for purchase before and after the event, and I will be happy to sign them and personalize them. Bring your friends–I hope to see you there!

posted 16 November 2019 in News. no comments yet

Kindness and Wonder: Some Interviews

In the wake of the release of Kindness and Wonder: Why Mister Rogers Matters More Than Ever, I have been doing interviews about Mister Rogers, his neighborhood, and my book with a variety of media outlets. If you want to catch up with them, now is your chance!

I visited the show Good Morning Charlotte at the Fox affiliate in Charlotte, North Carolina; I walked in just minutes before I went on the air (traffic was hopelessly snarled in the pre-dawn rain), but they just clipped a mic on me and shoved me onto the set. You can see the result on the Fox 46 website.

I’ve also done dozens of radio interviews recently, including with 550 KTRS in St. Louis, and most notably an hour-long conversation on “Charlotte Talks, ” hosted by Mike Collins on WFAE (Charlotte’s NPR affiliate), that also included Maxwell King, author of The Good Neighbor.

And The Hasty Book List website, which dubbed Kindness and Wonder a “must-read,” conducted an email interview with me that you can find here.

posted 4 November 2019 in Outside. no comments yet

Kindness and Wonder: Out Now!

I am pleased to inform you that this week marks the publication of Kindness and Wonder: Why Mister Rogers Matters Now More Than Ever.

If you’d like to buy a copy (which I recommend), this HarperCollins site can send you to your preferred retailer (including your local indie bookstore).

If you don’t trust me–after all, I wrote the book and I’m hardly objective, am I?—you might be interested in what some other people think about the book.

“[I]n Kindness and Wonder, Edwards fuses his reporter’s investigative and narrative ability with his vast interest in popular culture’s long shadow to tell a tale that is both gentle and wonderful, in a manner befitting its subject,” Cory Doctorow wrote at BoingBoing. “This is such a sweet and gentle and loving book; many times it brought tears to my eyes, and many more times it made me smile.”

USA Today named it one of their “five books not to miss” for this week, alongside Prince and Lee Child. Barbara VanDenburgh wrote, “This book pays tribute to the man who helped raise so many of us, and argues the case that his wisdom is more essential than ever.”

The BookTrib website dubbed it “fascinating” and said, “Looking back at the history of the show and the creative visionary behind it, pop culture aficionado Edwards reminds us of the indelible lessons and insights that Mister Rogers conveyed—what it means to be a good person, to be open-hearted, to be thoughtful, to be curious, to be compassionate—and why they matter.”

And my dear friend Mary Elizabeth Williams wrote in Salon, “One half biography, one half practical guide to life, Kindness and Wonder: Why Mister Rogers Matters Now More Than Ever reads like a balm to the anxious soul. It’s a reminder of the courage that it takes to be decent, and a call to find the good neighbor inside all of us.” She also called me up to interview me about the book and why I wrote it: you can read the resulting conversation here.

posted 30 October 2019 in Buy My Stuff. no comments yet

Kindness and Wonder: News and Tour

Hello neighbor! I am extremely excited because my next book, Kindness and Wonder: Why Mister Rogers Matters Now More Than Ever, is being published one week from today by Dey St., on October 29. I wanted to share another early review, from the good people at Library Journal: “This engaging, perceptive narrative examines the show, its popularity, its long-term cultural impact, and the criticisms it received when it was broadcast,” Carol J. Binkowski writes. “All readers will find inspiration in this uplifting book, particularly in today’s complex world.”

And I will be doing a few readings and signings for the book the first week it’s out! I may add some more appearances, but for the time being I’ll be staying close to home: that means that if you live in North Carolina, you’re in luck.

Tuesday, October 29 (7 pm) / Greensboro

Scuppernong Books: 304 S Elm St., Greensboro, NC 27401. 336-763-1919. scuppernongbooks@gmail.com

Wednesday, October 30 (7 pm) / Charlotte

Park Road Books: 4139 Park Rd., Charlotte, NC 28209. 704-525-9239. books@parkroadbooks.com

Sunday, November 3 (2 pm) / Davidson

Main Street Books: 126 S Main St., Davidson, NC 28036. 704-892-6841.

If you are nowhere near North Carolina and you’d really love a signed copy of Kindness and Wonder, I suggest calling up one of the above three bookstores before my signing and asking if you can purchase a book to be signed and/or inscribed by me and then have the store ship it to you. My guess is that they’d be delighted to help you out.

And if you are in North Carolina, I hope to see you at one (or more) of those events! Come say howdy (and bring along everyone you know)!

posted 22 October 2019 in Buy My Stuff, News. no comments yet

R.I.P. Kim Shattuck

I was very sad to hear of the death of the mighty Kim Shattuck, the creative force behind the Muffs–the band never achieved the commercial success of some of their pop-punk peers in the early 1990s, but they made some excellent albums and Shattuck had one of the all-time great rock screams, right up there with Roger Daltrey and John Lennon.

I wrote an obituary of Shattuck for The New York Times last week. I also corresponded briefly with her bandmates in the Muffs, double-checking a few biographical details, and so I share with you now this note on her employment history from drummer Roy McDonald:

I only remember Kim working as a morning receptionist at a gym and that she used to arrive at work in her pajamas. She also worked briefly as a file clerk at my wife’s employer in 2006… very briefly. I think it was the 2 1/2 hour lunches. She also briefly worked in “bird management.” I have no idea what that was. Ronnie might know. The three of us always cracked up over Kim’s employment history.

Kim Shattuck, rock star and bird manager, I salute you for a life well-lived.

posted 7 October 2019 in Links, News, Outside. no comments yet

Early Praise for Kindness and Wonder

Hello neighbors! I’m very excited to share Kindness and Wonder: Why Mister Rogers Matters Now More Than Ever with you. I am forced, however, to wait until the end of the month; it goes on sale on October 29th, exactly four weeks from today. (Click here for information on places where you can buy it and preorder it.) Until that happy day comes, can I direct your attention to a couple of early press notices?

USA Today included Kindness and Wonder in their recent preview of “This autumn’s must=read books,” alongside heavy hitters such as Ta-Nehisi Coates, John Le Carré, and Elton John. They write, “This book pays tribute to the man who helped raise so many of us, and argues the case that his wisdom is more essential than ever.”

And Publishers Weekly gave the book its first official review, a glowing notice: “Edwards (The Tao of Bill Murray) affectionately captures the spirit of Fred Rogers (1928–2003) in a crisply told biography that focuses on the enduring lessons Rogers shared with his viewers…. Edwards’s enthusiastic prose vibrantly captures Rogers’s spirit and wisdom.”

More news soon!

posted 1 October 2019 in Buy My Stuff, News. no comments yet

1988 Countdown #35: INXS, “Devil Inside”

(New to the countdown? Catch up here.)

Adam Curry hypes the “Big Bang ’89” party coming up later that night on MTV: “This is the only place to be on New Year’s Eve,” he says. Which was empirically not true, but it is the place where I ended up on the last day of 1988, so I guess he was right enough.

Curry cues up the next song: “Right now, a little secret–well, it’s not a big secret. INXS has four videos on the top 100 countdown of the past year. This is the second video off of the Kick album and the second video on the chart.” (The first was “Never Tear Us Apart,” which placed at #52.) I don’t think any of that qualifies as being a secret of any size; perhaps realizing that he’s overpromised, Curry quickly segues to the clip itself.

We see a lurid devil’s mask against a backdrop of red smoke. The devil turns, and we see that the mask is actually on the back of the head of INXS lead singer Michael Hutchence, who is illuminated with a sickly green light but is still ridiculously good looking.

We then get a flurry of quick cuts, as if somebody turned on a snowblower in the editing bay. In the space of three seconds: neon lights, a crowd in a bar featuring a dude wearing sunglasses at night, a blond-haired person of indeterminate gender working a David Johansen vibe, a movie marquee touting  “DEVIL INSIDE,” the silhouettes of some shapely feminine legs, and then an electric guitar playing the song’s opening chord.

I’m not going to log every single cut—let’s just agree that the action is moving quickly, the song has a great sinuous groove, and we’re visiting some seedy club. More hyperactive edits introduce some guys in tuxedos, the Converse-clad ankles of a skateboarder, a female mannequin, a black dude in a doo-rag, and a blonde girl in a leather bra. The production is grimy and the editing style is Adderall-based, but at heart this is a classic MTV party video, where diverse people from every walk of life get down together, united by music. (Key examples of the genre include Cyndi Lauper’s “Girls Just Want to Have Fun” and Huey Lewis’s “Heart and Soul.”)

We also see Hutchence shooting pool and fronting his band in a crowded bar, turning up his rock-star swagger as high as it will go. The other five members of INXS are all dressed in black and appear intermittently: Hutchence is wearing an expensive gray jacket with a red pocket square and lip-synching lyrics like “Words as weapons / sharper than knives / makes you wonder how the other half die.” (Side note: INXS had much better lyrics than I gave them credit for at the time. Hutchence was a master of the art of crafting lyrics that fully worked in pop songs but had a twisted, decadent integrity.)

Also starring in this video is a dark-haired woman, who vaguely looks like Cher’s kid sister, apparently cast as the woman “with the look in her eye / raised on leather / with flesh on her mind.” She struts through the club with as much confidence as Hutchence, running her hands through her hair, working that vampire charisma, walking on the bar in high heels. Co-songwriter Andrew Farriss, playing keyboards behind the bar, looks up her skirt. She gets on the dance floor and pretends to head-butt the guy she’s with; Hutchence responds with a credible karate kick as he sings “look at them kick.” (On the nose, but since it’s the album title, the lyric does deserve a little extra impact.) That MTV party staple, a bellboy in a red uniform with brass buttons, looks at the action with a leer, as if he’s working the catering at an orgy.

The chorus showcases Hutchence in a variety of locations, including up close with a brass pole. Unexpectedly, it appears to be not a stripper’s pole, but part of a merry-go-round.

This video was actually filmed at Balboa Pier in Newport Beach, California, which is squarely in Orange County—if you’re heading south from LA, turn right just after you get to Anaheim and you can’t miss it. The director was Joel Schumacher, whose haphazard directorial CV at this point included The Incredible Shrinking Woman (starring Lily Tomlin), D.C. Cab (Mr. T), and St. Elmo’s Fire (the Brat Pack). (His Batman movies and John Grisham adaptations would come in the 1990s.) He owed INXS a favor because they had anchored the soundtrack to The Lost Boys (his 1987 vampire movie starring Jason Patrick, Kiefer Sutherland, and the Coreys)—this video was where the band called in their marker.

On the set, the 48-year-old Schumacher complained, “When this is over, will somebody buy me a T-shirt that says ‘Too Old for Video’?” (That detail courtesy of Gina Arnold, who wrote about the shoot for the Los Angeles Times.) Other salient on-set intelligence: the fog in the video was actually produced by a mosquito fogger without any insecticide in it. Also, the second night of the video shoot conflicted with a U2 concert in L.A., but the INXS fans in attendance seemed unconcerned: “Are you kidding? INXS beat out U2 any day! That U2 is just a bunch of sloppy dudes. Bono needs a bath.”

Back to the video, which has come to a new section: same setting, same cast of characters, same short-attention-span editing style, but lots of backlighting and people in the crowd standing still, paralyzed by the power of INXS, or waiting for a plot development. And improbably, they get the plot development! A motorcycle gang rolls up to the club. The bikers face off in a line against a bunch of surfer dudes, many of them shirtless, apparently ready to rumble over whether the best single from Listen Like Thieves was “What You Need” or “Kiss the Dirt.”

Hutchence leads INXS in a single file between the two glaring camps, which apparently is a powerful enough gesture to defuse tensions. He clearly missed his calling in the Australian diplomatic corps. Instead, we get to see him dancing, which Michael Jackson taught us is the traditional celebration when you stop two rival gangs from carving each other up. I am reminded that when the MTV dance show Club MTV, popular at the time of this countdown, wanted to audition new people to be on-camera dancers, they would use INXS songs, because the band’s music bridged the gap between rock and R&B; anyone who wasn’t comfortable dancing to INXS wouldn’t do well with the Club MTV playlist.

Guitar solo! It’s a lovely chiming interlude by the spectacled Tim Farriss, looking intense as he delivers something more melodic than flashy. Intercut with his guitar: bewildered spectators looking through a window, Andrew Farriss with a popeyed expression, Hutchence flirting with a drag queen.

“Here comes a woman,” Hutchence sings again, and Schumacher introduces a new character, a woman in white standing up in a limo, gesturing dramatically through the sunroof and showing off her elbow-length gloves. She emerges and faces off with the woman in black. It looks like there’s going to be a confrontation—but then the woman in black just gets into the limo, replacing the woman in white as the companion of a corpulent man in a tuxedo. He’s wearing sunglasses, he has a predatory vibe, and he feels like the devil inside the limo.

Hutchence chants “the devil inside” but the woman in white doesn’t stick around to hear it—she gets on the back of a motorcycle and rides away into the night. The tinted glass rolls up on the limo and as it drives away, we can see that the chauffeur is wearing the grotesque devil’s mask that was featured in the first image of this video.

The pace of the cutting gets even faster as we head for the fade: tight skirts, gypsy women, Hutchence gyrating and stomping, a bunch of skateboarders, musclemen twins in skin-tight zebra-print overalls (the ominous lighting doesn’t make them any less ridiculous).

The video concludes with a bookend of the opening image: Hutchence turning away from the camera to show off the mask on the back of his head, implying (or perhaps just hoping) that in his case, maybe the devil is outside.

“Devil Inside” peaked at #2 on the pop charts (blocked from the top by Billy Ocean’s “Get Outta My Dreams, Get Into My Car” and Whitney Houston’s “Where Do Broken Hearts Go.”) You can watch it here.

posted 19 September 2019 in 1988. 2 comments